tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546432639024530501.post8978066037147097817..comments2023-12-22T03:37:59.732-05:00Comments on It's a Gay Life: No one likes honesty in a eulogyjamiessmileshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14150972137054126110noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546432639024530501.post-78128141038718039812011-06-03T14:08:15.794-04:002011-06-03T14:08:15.794-04:00I just discovered your blog - you are an honest an...I just discovered your blog - you are an honest and talented writer! <br />This post really touched me. Your Grandmother seems to have missed out a relationship with a pretty great grandson...Kevin Routhhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14398496675452201388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546432639024530501.post-67351760735410652782011-05-16T22:10:27.109-04:002011-05-16T22:10:27.109-04:00Just because you write what you feel doesn't m...Just because you write what you feel doesn't mean you are not a decent person. Mourn what your grandmother missed out on, a grandson who is worthy and has enough kindness to wish the grandmother who didn't have time for him peace in the ever after. Your post was well written and I felt your heart in it. I'm sorry for her and for you, for what could have been. God bless Jamie.TracyRobinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17076335244153743730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546432639024530501.post-63926388948539950882011-05-16T16:58:56.771-04:002011-05-16T16:58:56.771-04:00I still think you are a decent person after readin...I still think you are a decent person after reading that and will continue to think so. It's sad that we have people in our life we call family who are supposed to love us unconditionally, but turn their backs when they can't see past what they think is "right" She's the one who lost out, not you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546432639024530501.post-52165506549760623612011-05-14T04:21:52.752-04:002011-05-14T04:21:52.752-04:00Love you to bits Jamie.Love you to bits Jamie.Psycho Babbling Basherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17232755958213827818noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546432639024530501.post-78067704635932834362011-05-12T10:34:03.158-04:002011-05-12T10:34:03.158-04:00Jamie you are so sweet to wish your Gramma peace a...Jamie you are so sweet to wish your Gramma peace after the way she ignored you.You do realise she was the one to lose out in the end though dont you? I dont mean by loseing her life, I mean because she had the chance to have some one beautiful in her life and she chose to turn her back on them (you), how sad is that.I only know you from your blog and the cs and I am glad I met you, no offence intended Jamie but I think your grams was round the hat rack for missing the opportunity to have you in her life.*Hugs*kikinotdeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16505177238584232704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546432639024530501.post-71043135173227225832011-05-11T16:45:35.853-04:002011-05-11T16:45:35.853-04:00I am sorry your grandma died. and i am sorry she d...I am sorry your grandma died. and i am sorry she didnt care to get to know you and spend the necessary time with you. My moms side of the family doesnt like who I am or who i am with (my bf) so therefore they have not invited us anywhere anymore. idk why but we have not seen them for a while. I hope that somewhere your father and his family will find it in their hearts to get to know who you are, they will regret it later. It shouldnt matter whether your mom is white or your straight or gay, or you told them all to fuck off or whatever. they should always love you and keep you close to home. hope everything looks up, and if they dont find the time for you, then i wouldnt worry about wasting your time on them either.DarkVanillahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06976108465623130488noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546432639024530501.post-14663567701264019062011-05-11T08:26:44.350-04:002011-05-11T08:26:44.350-04:00Just remember that you should have no regrets. Dec...Just remember that you should have no regrets. Decisions were made on both parts and cannot be changed, even if you wanted to change them. <br />I have a couple of family members that are not very nice to me, so I can sympathise a little with you. Do not dwell on the past or think 'I should be feeling sad but i am not really' because you have your reasons and everyone should respect you for them, especially since they probably know what went on between you. If you're not sad, then don't worry about it.Tortyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10070346598314949711noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546432639024530501.post-39014409895465625482011-05-11T07:14:35.669-04:002011-05-11T07:14:35.669-04:00Yeah, she is going to be laid to rest, and in the ...Yeah, she is going to be laid to rest, and in the end it will not really affect my life in total.jamiessmileshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14150972137054126110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546432639024530501.post-3830759829822911572011-05-10T21:49:57.511-04:002011-05-10T21:49:57.511-04:00Great post. Just because someone dies doesn't...Great post. Just because someone dies doesn't automatically make them a saint. I guess you can mourn what could have been rather than what was.Adult Studenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10657913646796177427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546432639024530501.post-87645718340425176122011-05-10T18:41:14.876-04:002011-05-10T18:41:14.876-04:00Hi Jamie, you almost had me in tears with that pos...Hi Jamie, you almost had me in tears with that post. Despite the sadness behind it, it was beautifully written.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06418601369080683210noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4546432639024530501.post-77795274874948787612011-05-10T14:49:28.568-04:002011-05-10T14:49:28.568-04:00Ah Jamie, I guess I should say that I'm sorry ...Ah Jamie, I guess I should say that I'm sorry for your loss, but it sounds to me like you never really had much to lose there.<br />You can't miss what you never had and at you at least are honest about your feelings, good or bad - that's something to be proud of :)<br />I do hate the way people see the dead through rose tinted glasses.dirtycowgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04193492692357362402noreply@blogger.com